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Girls who feel nervous or uncomfortable find it difficult to stay still. They usually fiddle around with their hands or with another object. They might play with their hair or fiddle with their cellphone. Try to observe if she does this a lot when she's around you.
But if she seems to be pushing you to be interested in a friend of hers, you can bet she’s not that interested in you. (You might also thank her, because this can be a great way to meet new, qualified people.) Girls who are interested in you are going to want to keep you for themselves, not pass you off to her single girlfriends. Remain honest and open, both to her feelings and to the possibilities.
I know, I know, the cliché is that when people have a crush we’re shy and blush a lot. That’s definitely the case too! But when a girl makes eye contact with you, it’s a great sign. She’s being upfront about wanting to connect with you. She’s looking into your eyes because she’s interested in you and she’s confident about it, which is awesome.
I could really use your help. If she’s smiling toward you when you’re in a conversation, that’s a sign she likes you.
Examples of treating you too much like a friend include consistent side hugging, telling people that you’re “like a brother,” or even talking about “what good friends” you are. (This might be about as literal as a woman will get without being asked point-blank.) Referring to you in terms you would use for your guy friends (“dude” or “bro”) can also be a sign that she sees you more as a friend than a boyfriend.
- It’s a harmless question if she’s straight.
- So I have a crush on a girl but we do not know each other.
- The final and most obvious sign is that she doesn’t like talking about love, crushes, or relationships with you, and why is that?
Mirroring establishes comfort, trust and rapport – which explains why politicians are so damn good at it (and often go through intensive body language training to get good). This isn’t necessarily a sign that someone likes you, but I think it’s incredibly important to realize that some girls will be indecisive about whether they like you or not. It’s not her fault. And you should encourage her to be more comfortable around you.
Does she make and keep plans with you?
I text her to say I don’t want to be a bother but let her know she was beautiful today she waited about 10 mins replying that I’m not a bother with a 😉 however she has let everyone know she is there to work not make relationships. She also said she could use a hug from me last night but I live 1 hour away from work. My problem is I’m lesbian and she to me comes off as a straight woman so I’m a bit confused as to how I should take her gestures. She knows I’m a lesbian and she has never really replied with her preference. So should I take it as she is just friendly with me because she does not act like that with others or should I just let it ride out.
2. She “mirrors” you
If you are sitting in one room with other people present and she often meets your eyes and smiles slightly, this is also a very telling sign of her feelings for you. Finally if she is not only quick to reply to your texts, but also often reacts with laughing emojis, this is also a modern way of telling that a girl likes you. In popular media like movies and men’s magazines, women are often portrayed as mysterious creatures who are nearly impossible to decipher.
Most guys don’t react to being rejected very well, and when it happens more than once, they will be less and less likely to reach out to girls out of fear of being turned down again. For most people, it’s almost impossible to keep eye contact with someone they really like.